“No relationship is all sunshine, but two people can share one umbrella and survive the storm together.”
Dying hard to make things alright? Well, if someone is wanting to work things out with their partner and getting them back in their lives, there are certain things one should keep in mind.
Let us start with a few-
1. Communication is the key
Mutual friends can play a major role in gearing a relationship. They can team up to get calls set up or organize a meeting point. Such things provide a positive spur as it is unexpected for at least one of them. Remember, efforts should not take a back seat.
2. Realize your mistakes and apologize
A person knows from within whether they are right or wrong. Some things are not done intentionally and still sound wrong. It is still known whether it was an accident or deliberately done. Everyone knows it from within.
Saying sorry makes one stronger and forgiving makes one even greater. One should not think that they will devalue themselves if they forgive or seek forgiveness. Directly stating and confrontation can be a good move.
3. Working out on ourselves
A person falls in love with the personality of the other. A person is with someone because that person matches their vibe and they love being around that person. So, when someone has broken up with their partner, instead of depressing themselves and stalking them on social media, they should spend this time on themselves.
Every person is beautiful in all shapes, skins and sizes but people can get them to an even healthier state.
(This doesn’t mean that someone is not beautiful and this is the reason that they left. This is getting them more attracted and inclined.)
A normal person’s behavior is that he/she likes to be loved, pampered, taken care of and all cheesy things. (Guys also like this)
So, when all this is being done for them, they will be losing onto this when the other person is not around. No other person… I repeat, no other person can fill this void. Something was special and unique about their partner, which is why they were with them. Being a little ignorant will make them think more about their partner and there are chances of the person coming back.
5. A little jealousy is always good
When a partner is a little jealous when the other gets along with other friends of opposite gender, it always acts as an assurance that he/she never wants to lose their significant other. So, one should always try getting along with other friends in the meantime, try staying happy, posting only positive things on social media and such whereabouts can make them miss their partner more and the times that have been spent together.
6. Increasing our value
It is a common statement that a person realizes someone else’s importance when that person leaves.
This would be realized when they start missing their partner and think of talking or getting back. They value the things between them more once that is gone because it is unlikely for any other person to fill this void. Creating this feeling of loss and cutting contact for some time is necessary.
7. Giving them Space
Sometimes, just setting them free from the daily monotonous life, too much clinginess and insecurities, being tough and rigid often makes the other person loose his/her interest. One tone of spatial understanding fires several jolts of attraction in them. Learn to be empathetic, putting ourselves in their shoes and understanding the reason will yield good results. This way, they think that no one cares for them and then the efforts will be from their side. This is equivalent to cutting contact with them.
Life is beautiful with and without a person. If that person is meant to stay, he/she will until and unless he/she is compelled to leave or that person wants to leave. Trying to enhance our skills, working on our hobbies, spending more time with friends and family, making something or going out and having something, start following some web series, watch a movie, read a book or just sleep. A few days or weeks later, this lifestyle will be enjoyable too. A person is meant to grow in all forms. So, stay optimistic that there is always something good in everything.