Many times we see boys and girls walking around, in a park, in a store we observe them and put out a judgment that they may be dating or may be couples. Well study shows that the activities that boys and girls do under the tag line of a relationship are also done by best friends excluding the sensual things as they stick together all the time.
The first time when we hear about best friends dating, it seems a little tacky but when we look into the matter really close we realize that it is possible. In the case of best friends falling in love we may not be able to make out if they are friends or if they are dating.
Sometimes it is also possible that even if he/she likes the other they won’t tell each other as they are scared of losing their bond but when it falls into place they are the strongest couples you’ll ever find.
Let’s look at the perks of dating your best friend:
THE BOND IS REAL
As he/she had been friends with each other, they both know about the other’s feelings and emotions. Both of them don’t have to try out things. So, it leads to be a real bond without any faking of emotions.
A BETTER UNDERSTANDING ABOUT YOUR PARTNERS
They already know what the other person means when he/she says something, there is no overlapping of things which leads to a better understanding about the situation the other is in and it leads to a smooth relationship.
LONG TERM GUARANTEE
When they know and understand the other so well, it reduces the chance of taking a wrong step that might hinder the relationship. So, they are very clear that the bond is not a short term bond but it is going to run for a long period. This is the assurance of a relationship of two people who were already friends and are looking forward to stay with the same partner.
KNOWLEDGE OF HOW TO RESOLVE A PROBLEM
Since the friendship status was already prevalent, they already know about their ex-boyfriend/girlfriend and why their last relationship didn’t work. So when these two people enter into a relationship they both know about each other’s temperament moments and if by mistake any of them hits that moment the other knows how to calm down the situation and solve the issue.
IMPORTANCE OF TRUST
As they about each other’s past, there is no question of telling a lie. They don’t have to prove anything to one and other. This results in a trustworthy relationship where both the partners can share anything without being hesitant.
NO QUESTION OF COMFORTABILITY
As they have spent a long time being friends and have done many sick things together. Both of them are very comfortable with each other.
A LOT MORE OPEN
When best friends start dating and enter into a relationship they get more comfortable and are not really ashamed to say or do anything. You don’t have to think twice when you are dating your best friend.
NO NEED TO CHANGE
He/she has seen their partner’s flaws and sick moments and they still were friends. So, when they enter into relationship they like their partners for who they are and don’t want anything from the other but just the assurance of not changing into someone else.
A PUREST FORM OF LOVE
He/she already liked their partner when they were friends so, now when they are one, their love for each other grows even more. And this is the purest form of love where you find no glitches or grudges. They stay strong and their relationship prospers with time.
FRIENDSHIP IS SECURE
Even if something unwanted happens in their relationship which may lead to their separation, they both know that moreover relationship they were and can still stay friends. So, there is security of friendship among the two.
These are some of the beautiful perks of dating your best friend. Friendship is itself a bond of lovers and being friends is in itself a relationship.